Recently I had experiences with two salespeople that reinforced my view of what we in the sales profession should and shouldn’t be.
The Great Experience
The first salesman earned my business and “sold me” (i.e., didn’t prevent me buying) something I didn’t already have, a smart phone. It should come in a few days. His name is Evan Souza, and he manages the Verizon Store near the Borders Across from Citrus Heights Mall. He’s a good guy. You should see him if you need a phone.
I walked into his store interested in the DroidX. He greeted me and once I told him what I wanted to look at, he let me play with it for a few minutes then asked me if it would be alright with me (note: he didn’t insist on it) if he showed me some of the features of the phone. I agreed, and he did, and clearly he knew the product well. I really liked the phone but I wanted to sleep on it for awhile and told him I’d make a decision soon. He said something like, “That’s fine, let us know if we can help.”"
Did you notice how he just sold me on buying the phone from him. How? Simple: He sold himself by not selling the phone. You can call this just being nice, or maybe you can call it “The Golden Rule”. If you want a “salesey” explanation you can call it “the paradox close”" because it both is a close and isn’t at the same time. It’s closing by not closing. So I got his card and promised that if I decided to buy one I’d buy one from him.
A week or two later I returned to the store because I wanted to see the phone one more time and make up my mind. I asked for him by name and he was behind the counter working with some of his employees. He greeted me and assured me that anyone in the store could help me. So I returned to the phone and played with it some more, and I had a question that I asked another salespeople there. He answered my question courteously and then he shut up. I had now been paradox closed twice by the same company.
Now don’t get me wrong. All this would have failed if the product had been a loser, but this was a wonderful product – nice big screen, an easy-to-use way to enter notes and emails (Swype rocks!) – pretty much exactly what I wanted. But here’s the thing: I could buy the same phone on Amazon.com or any one of probably a dozen stores in the area. But I didn’t do that – I got my credit card out and bought it there that very day. It arrives Monday. I’ll let you know what I think.
My Horrible Experience
The other salesman managed to prevent me from every buying anything from him again after I’d bought something from him once and had previously been quite happy with it. To avoid unnecessary cruelty I’m not going to mention him by name, but the background is that he owns the company that sells a software product that I already own and until recently was quite happy with. Now I wouldn’t recommend you buy it on a bet, because if you do, [NAME REDACTED] might treat you to one of his special business-killing letters, which I reproduce in part below.
The subject of his letter (minus my company name and registration info):
“Please let us know why you didn’t upgrade”
Word of honor, I’m not making this up. This is a teaser line in the negative sense, because it prompted me to ask myself, “Hmm, I wonder who this idiot could be?” His letter continues:
We noticed that this license was not upgraded to v10. We’d really like to know why.
You’d “really like to know why” I didn’t upgrade my product? What compelling voice inside your tiny little head whispered that I was somehow obligated to hang around your web site waiting for the next version of a product I already own so I could give you more money?
We take user feedback seriously!
Fair enough. Here’s my feedback. Run, don’t walk, to this charm school and beg them to take you on, paying them whatever hazardous duty rate they should demand of you.
Please reply to this email to let us know why you did not upgrade to [Software Product Name] Version 10.
Oh, I’ll do better than reply to the email. I’m going to contrast you in a blog post to someone who knows how to treat people.
But my “favorite” part of his email is coming up. He’s already irrevocably lost my business, but the point where he becomes truly flame worthy emerges here:
Also, please let us know if you would like a response back. If so, we will respond, but please allow us a few days to read and reply to all the feedback we receive.
His “thought process” on this must have amounted to “Obviously, I’m going to be incredibly swamped with a huge volume of people standing in line to explain why they’re terrible customers, but if you do manage to make it past my incredible stupidity and do what I clumsily asked you to do, I’ll get back to you when I feel like it.”
Mistakes I’ve Made
I’ve made lots of mistakes in my sales career, especially early on before I mastered some of the technical details of real estate transactions and before I learned to shut up and listen to the client. The second mortgage on my house is a product of the “success” I had during my first year in the business.
I started to make more money than I spent on gas when I finally took off the jacket and tie, relaxed, and realized that a good salesman was simply a good person who uses knowledge in a specific area to help someone decide to own – or not to own – a product that can benefit them. So now that’s what I do. And I’m so proud of my agents because that’s what they do, too.
Of course I still make my share of mistakes with people, but when I do I try to fix them right away. I hope that even on my worse day I was never as bad as the guy in my second example. And I hope that at least nine times out of ten I’m as good an example as Evan Souza, from whom you should buy a phone if you’re looking for a phone.
If you’re looking for help with your real estate transaction, we’re here to help you with all the knowledge and skill we can bring to bear. When you work with us to buy or sell a home, we don’t hound you forevermore asking you to refer us, but we do work very hard to try to earn them from you naturally.